i hate it when that happens...
i could not do that either. the problem is that you seem to be a person that attaches emotional feelings to each (well maybe most) sexual encounters, and he definately does not. i am making and assumption, which could be wrong on all levels, but thats just how it would seem to me. his lack of emotional attachment to sex this will cause major problems if you pursue anything. it may turn out that he will attach emotions to the relationship, but you will constantly be questioning that and your own sexual prowess (am i as good as the porn stars you've done kind of thing). if he seems like a nice guy, pursue it as a friendly relationship. guy friends are always good to have. i think thats about all i've got for ya. hope something helped.
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this is one of those rare occasions where ignorance is bliss. It's one of those things that really SHOULDN'T matter, but it does. That being said, if I knew someone was in the business, I wouldn't pursue it. If I found out they were with 30+ people (I'm 20 and I'm assuming they'd be about the same) I would be pretty freaked out. You can normally write it off as 'oh, they were stupid back then, they've grown up a bit' but it's always going to eat at the back of your mind. Here's kind of a for instance: back when I was 16-17, I was dating someone just a few months younger than me. After a couple months, she ended up telling me that when she was 15, she had to have an abortion and overtime I found out she'd been with like 4-5 other people before me (which for someone at 16 is quite a bit). Whenever I really sat there and thoguht about it I got a bit upset, but for the most part I just figured that was then, now she's with me. I guess if you think he's not like that anymore then there's no problem in pursuing a relationship, but like I said, be prepared to deal with that in your head every now and then.
ok, damn! lots to respond to.
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He actually explained to me that the scenes take a long time to shoot, and so they don't want the actors gettin all worn out for hours at a time... they just go long enough to get the head shots. They pick the stunt cocks who are similar in build AND penis size and use them to do all the dirty work. oi. that sounds so bad.Stunt cock... why is that needed? Do the actors not like pussy or something?
Ohhhh... nvm I get it. Actors don't have a "porno-sized" penis. Gahaha.
I guess I should have explained that better in my post, but it was so damn long as it was that I didn't want to bore you with detail. He was actually a stripper and a stunt cock while he was in college, around 2 years ago. Since he joined the Air Force, he "settled down" and was actually engaged for a while. His parents are also very well off so he clearly didn't do any of it for the money. He did it because he liked the hype.Does this dude need to be a stunt cock to have a decent standard of living? I wouls assume that the Air Force would take care of him quite well. It wasn't clear if he was still doing this, or had stopped. If he has stopped, I think you should be fine, if he intends on being a stunt cock for some time, I guess find someone who is a bit cleaner.
I can maybe see why this line might have worked... with a retarded girl. But that crap did the exact opposite in regards to making me want to fuck him.That line was such BS I cant stand it. I've used that to get laid about 5 times. Of course my fake job wasn't air force it was engineer at GM since I live in Michigan, luckily they were too stupid to know most their engineers aren't in michigan heh.
But it got screwed when my buddies caught wind of my little plan all of a sudden every guy in town was Peter North, then when it stopped working for them they would cock block me by randomly asking people I was talking too if I used the stunt cock line yet. Fuckers.
But yeah the theory behind this is, "my cock is so great and I fuck so well I was a stunt cock in pornos, also I eat pussy like a champ."
Yeah that guy was full of something, and it could fuel a japanese power plant for a month.
He's 26. He lost his virginity at 21. And like I said before... he was dating his fiance for over a year, and was supposedly faithful to her. So that's over 30 women in 4 years.It sounds like you think 30 is too many???? Unless he's really young, that doesn't seem like that many.
i think you hit the nail on the head.i could not do that either. the problem is that you seem to be a person that attaches emotional feelings to each (well maybe most) sexual encounters, and he definately does not. i am making and assumption, which could be wrong on all levels, but thats just how it would seem to me. his lack of emotional attachment to sex this will cause major problems if you pursue anything. it may turn out that he will attach emotions to the relationship, but you will constantly be questioning that and your own sexual prowess (am i as good as the porn stars you've done kind of thing). if he seems like a nice guy, pursue it as a friendly relationship. guy friends are always good to have. i think thats about all i've got for ya. hope something helped.
nasty... i did my best to keep your identity a secret. you are the one going around informing everyone! and if you really think that what we did was the deed... then you must be a really bad stunk cock.Lizzi,
I can't belive you shared my story and our night together with this group of perverts! You can stop thinking about it-- STOP CALLING ME! And for the record gents, we DID do the deed.
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I would pass on him Lizzi,, my ex-girlfriend found what she though was a nice guy after we broke up, but it turns out he was a stripper and would sometimes go home with his customers(something that got him fired from a job back where he was originally from) to make some extra money.
now, i could be all cool and say that it didnt get me pissed off, but i wanted to fucking beat the living shit out of this guy,, and by the way he had the same kind of story your guy had,, used to be nerd, got good looking,, self-destructed, yadda, yadda, yadda....
but the thing you really have to consider is,,, no matter what he says, with the kind of story he fed you(true or not) is it really worth finding out what kind of emotional baggage this guy really has?
hell, i have baggage, but not that much,, hell most of my relationships end because all the ex's say im too closed up.. fuck it, way i was raised...
but this guy,, holy shit, i cant even imagine what kind of a mess he is...
my final advice,, pass him up,, your a girl.. so as a guy saying this,, you literaly have tons and tons of options... remember, you have all the power in who gets play and who doesnt so i wouldnt stress too much over it when you turn him down.
now, i could be all cool and say that it didnt get me pissed off, but i wanted to fucking beat the living shit out of this guy,, and by the way he had the same kind of story your guy had,, used to be nerd, got good looking,, self-destructed, yadda, yadda, yadda....
but the thing you really have to consider is,,, no matter what he says, with the kind of story he fed you(true or not) is it really worth finding out what kind of emotional baggage this guy really has?
hell, i have baggage, but not that much,, hell most of my relationships end because all the ex's say im too closed up.. fuck it, way i was raised...
but this guy,, holy shit, i cant even imagine what kind of a mess he is...
my final advice,, pass him up,, your a girl.. so as a guy saying this,, you literaly have tons and tons of options... remember, you have all the power in who gets play and who doesnt so i wouldnt stress too much over it when you turn him down.
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Sounds like a chick I use to like a while back. She'd always come to me with her problems, I'd of course be the nice guy and help. I evantually told her the way I felt. She didn't feel the same though. And started going out with this other guy. Well he treated her like garbage, and even cheated on her. Her and I evantually stopped talking.rho wrote:I would pass on him Lizzi,, my ex-girlfriend found what she though was a nice guy after we broke up, but it turns out he was a stripper and would sometimes go home with his customers(something that got him fired from a job back where he was originally from) to make some extra money.
now, i could be all cool and say that it didnt get me pissed off, but i wanted to fucking beat the living shit out of this guy,, and by the way he had the same kind of story your guy had,, used to be nerd, got good looking,, self-destructed, yadda, yadda, yadda....
but the thing you really have to consider is,,, no matter what he says, with the kind of story he fed you(true or not) is it really worth finding out what kind of emotional baggage this guy really has?
hell, i have baggage, but not that much,, hell most of my relationships end because all the ex's say im too closed up.. fuck it, way i was raised...
but this guy,, holy shit, i cant even imagine what kind of a mess he is...
my final advice,, pass him up,, your a girl.. so as a guy saying this,, you literaly have tons and tons of options... remember, you have all the power in who gets play and who doesnt so i wouldnt stress too much over it when you turn him down.
Just goes to show ya, sometimes people make really stupid decisions. And Lizzi, sounds like this guy is lying to ya. I wouldn't believe a thing he says.
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I'm breaking my lurking (mostly during classes) policy to ask why you, Lizzi, would be labeled a Stupid Fucking Newbie just because of your post count. That's just not right, you need to pull a Justin & change that. You're practically a deity on this site, there's no way you belong on the same rating system with the rest of the plebians on this site.
edit - thx to whoever saw fit to give me a sig, I guess :wicked:
edit - thx to whoever saw fit to give me a sig, I guess :wicked:
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I personally like reading Lizzie's posts. Anything that someone puts on here that makes you think a little is...........OK by me. Unfortuntely for me, the kind of women she speaks of (plus the drama queens) have made me more than a little gunshy. To quote BOC: "You see me now, a veteran, of a thousand psychic wars.."
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