It’s no secret that my girlfriend hates this site. In fact, my 8th ex hated it too. We didn’t break up because of the site though but it still doesn’t change the fact she hated it (my 9th ex doesn’t apply because she was, and probably still is, a cheating whore so any bad feelings she may have had about this site is rendered invalid because anyone who would even consider cheating on their boyfriend is a cold heartless emotionless bitch with no real feelings). But yeah, ex number 8 and my current girlfriend, well, they hate this site.
I’ve gotten into arguments and fights with my girlfriend over this site more times that i can even remember. And i’m afraid that if i continue on running it, i’m gonna eventually lose her. When it comes down to it, this site isn’t really all that important in the whole scheme of things. Real life will always take more precedent. Would i give up a real life relationship just to be able to keep running an internet website which deeply upsets my girlfriend? Would you?
As great as it is to run this site and to post up stupid shit and talk about girls and stuff and being such a ‘guy’ on it, i consider my relationship with my girlfriend to be even greater. And losing any bit of that greatness because of this site just isn’t worth it.
Last night, on AIM, my girlfriend told me:
“do me a favor? let me know when u’re done with it? Meanwhile, I love u more than anyhing, but I just can’t do this anymore. I hate getting all jealous of girls who u’ve never even been in the same room with.”
She logged off right after that. This was what she said earlier before:
“I hate how all of this makes me feel…. I hate it when u mention some new net girl u’re nuts about. I guess i just don’t like ur little “net life”. It feels like i’m sharing u…
I tried explaining to her how all of this was just ‘net’ stuff. How all the people i talk to (Thess, Eve, Suzi, Liz etc etc) are just… well… net people. Not ‘real life’ people. How it’s not like i’m hanging out with them in real life and being with them in the same room or anything. It’s not like i even ‘cyber flirt’ with them online (i don’t. not even with other girls outside the ‘circle’). At best, they’re all just friends. Nothing more, nothing less.
But i really don’t blame her though. I mean, seriously, if i were a girl and i had a boyfriend who ran a site like this, talking about and doing all the things that i normally do on here (posting about girls, taking pictures of that Stephanie girl in class… amongst many other things), i’d probably feel the same way too. I could be doing worse, but as it is, i’m already going a little too far.
So what does this all mean? Well… i’ve decided to quit the site. Or at least take a break from posting for a while. How long? I don’t know. But i feel it’s the best thing to do for now. That way there’s no chance of me getting her upset again over my posts. Or over how i act on my site. To be specific, it’s really not so much the site or how i act on it that gets to her, it’s the girls that i talk to (Thess, Eve, Suzi, Liz etc etc).
It’s not that she hates all of you (in fact, she absolutely loves Suzi), but i guess it just gets to her… like how ‘close’ i am with some of you.
I realize that there are several other ways to deal with this. Like, toning down the content or taking off the links to the girls or not letting any of them post on the site or whatever… but i don’t wanna do that. I don’t wanna have to cut anybody off from the site. I don’t wanna tell them that i can’t talk to them anymore because it’s upsetting my girlfriend. And i really don’t want anyone to hate my girlfriend because of how she feels. Try putting yourself in her shoes. You’d probably be able to relate to how she feels. I don’t expect anyone to understand what’s going between me and her and i’m not gonna delve into that topic right now but i would appreciate that you all hold no ill feelings towards her. It’s primarily my fault anyway. Say what you want about me being whipped or whatever but i stand by how i feel about her and my site. My relationship with her comes before my site.
So i’m stepping away from the site for an indefinite amount of time. I won’t be posting anymore. The site will still be up though. And hey, maybe if things work out, i might even come back and start posting again. But for now, i gotta take a break. I need to fix things with my girlfriend.
I don’t really know what’s gonna happen but the girls will still have access to post on the site. Maybe i’ll even get some other guy to take my place. Who knows? The site might even be better that way.
Before i go, i’d just like to clear things up about what happened to Eve’s post. She chose to close delete the post because things had gone completely out of hand in the comments. Things that should have never been said were said. And due to that:
“there’s a slim chance i may post again, but i seriously doubt it. some people just go way, way too far and into area they have absolutely no understanding of.” – Eve
Her post was just misunderstood.
Anyhow, i’m done.
If you have anything you wanna say, well, there’s always the comments. Or you could always just e-mail me. Girls, take care of the site while i’m gone.
Later.
*sniffle* Do what you gotta do, man. Hopefully your readers will understand. But I hope you’ll be back. And I hope you fix things with your laydee. Shes really special.
I don’t know whats going to happen to fubar–are any of us entertaining enough to keep it up? I sure as hell could not post once a day on here, blah.
Justin, you rock nevertheless. You’re a really great boyfriend to her. And I hope you’ll stay my friend…
#1 | Comment by Liz — October 17, 2002 @ 2:30 am
you’re a good boyfriend, Justin. I’ll miss ur funny randomness, but it’s good u have your priorities in order.
#2 | Comment by Amy — October 17, 2002 @ 2:32 am
Shit happens man.
#3 | Comment by fnfx2 — October 17, 2002 @ 2:37 am
I’d do the same thing if I were in shoes, Justin…and thank God I’m not. If any guy who comments on this claims they wouldn’t do the same in your situation, then they have never been in a relationship with a wonderful woman and don’t know what it’s like to be more than happy to make sacrifices to keep that woman happy. If I ran your site and my girlfriend wanted me to stop (which I don’t imagine she would because I’m way too whipped to screw around on her lol), I would do it in a heartbeat. Anyway, I would like to offer to post on the site for you on a regular basis. I’ve been reading here for over 6 months now and it is a daily visit. Hell, I’m a good writer and I’m quite funny :). Just let me know, man, it would be my pleasure.
#4 | Comment by bryan — October 17, 2002 @ 2:45 am
..been there man. I respect your decision. But I also noticed you said, "This site comes before my relationship with her." hmm.. She’s right about Suzi though.
#5 | Comment by shine — October 17, 2002 @ 2:55 am
Sounds like there’s a serious lack of trust in the relationship. Maybe this will reestablish it.
#6 | Comment by -- — October 17, 2002 @ 2:59 am
I <3 your girlfriend even though I don't know her.....and you're my friend so do what you gotta do.
#7 | Comment by Keli — October 17, 2002 @ 2:59 am
Crackah puhleaze!…
Ok. Let me be the first to tell you that you need to take a good look between your legs and make sure you still have your "man-unit" in tact. I’m betting its tucked in pretty far in about now…
You don’t need to stop doing the site. You need to seriously examine your relationship with your gf. None of my business, really, but I would suggest, if I may, that any girl that feels that she’s in competition with some net chicks has serious insecurity issues. This is the same chick that has a cow when she see you looking at some hottie walking by. Or gives you the fifth degree about, "What do you think she’s got?", if you so much as just have a conversation with a female. Point is, most chicks are like that. More importantly, my gf doesn’t give me any of this kind of grief. As a matter of fact, when a hottie walks by, I usually will point it out to her! In other words, I treat her the same way I would my guy friends. Why? Well, she’s my best friend – why wouldn’t I? Doesn’t it hurt her feelings? Nope. She knows that she’s got much more going for her than just simply good looks. So naturally she doesn’t feel threatend by some other good looking girl. So any girl that feels jealous at some random hottie, needs to realize that what she’s really saying is, that she’s no more than a pretty package and has little else to offer outside of her looks. And relationships like that never last.
If you think I’m wrong… here’s your own quote:
This site comes before my relationship with her.
…freudian slip?
#8 | Comment by Prez — October 17, 2002 @ 3:02 am
LoL – sorry about the bold gone out of control — must have missed a closing bracket
#9 | Comment by Prez — October 17, 2002 @ 3:06 am
I have to say I am severly disappointed, when I first came to this site I never intended to get hooked into it. Took almost a year before I ever even decided to post on here. That being said, I have been married over three years and respect you greatly for your decision. While no girl should ever ask you to change or give up who or what you are…to make a choice, a real man must also be able to decide what choice to make when the time comes. And it will come. Hopefully this is the one for you, if so you will be proud of this moment for the rest of your life. If not, you may or may not come back….probably you will but I think all of your regulars have seen your heart has not been in this site for a while. I wish you the best of luck and hope you get more comments wishing the same on this post then ever before.
#10 | Comment by Jamlink — October 17, 2002 @ 3:07 am
Didn’t mean to go bold either, not sure why it happened. I actually agree with Prez though, I have a similar relationship….but I still respect you for your decision.
#11 | Comment by Jamlink — October 17, 2002 @ 3:12 am
Well, it has been nice knowing you Justin with all your posts and shit. Hope things work out and you can come back. I feel a sense of nostalgia, but hey ho! lets go! o shiza well cya laters i be trying to wipe this mercury off of my skin.
#12 | Comment by Soulja — October 17, 2002 @ 3:14 am
Prez, shut the fuck up. He did say
"I don’t expect anyone to understand"
Don’t just assume things that you don’t truly understand.
#13 | Comment by Matt — October 17, 2002 @ 3:20 am
oh no.justin gone?boobies gone.world ending.dik kok is sad as himalayan tiger extinction.maybe justin gerlwomen is controllin justin like yummy dog on leash.here in thailand,dogs are eaten. 🙂
#14 | Comment by dick kok — October 17, 2002 @ 3:21 am
not everyone can have a perfect life like you prez. /sarcasm i’d do the same if i were justin
#15 | Comment by kris — October 17, 2002 @ 3:37 am
dick kok, you just made me laugh my ass off. thank you for my 3am amusement time 😉
#16 | Comment by Liz — October 17, 2002 @ 3:37 am
aww…
justin has to go… but seriously thinking about it man, i think one day you’d have to leave all this too…
especially once you’ve done with studying
guess it’s always best to leave on a high… but, of course, you’ve always given us preparations for this day… all the I QUIT gimmicks in the past…
well, no matter what, cheers justin.
see ya soon
#17 | Comment by beng — October 17, 2002 @ 3:49 am
by the way, don’t mind me asking, where is your gf? in the states with you or some where in asia? sorry, but i haven’t really noticed much about her existence before…
#18 | Comment by beng — October 17, 2002 @ 3:52 am
Hey prez.
Have you heard the word. Gentleman? This is what in this time should be, gentleman. I think you are way to far from you Stone time. Where men, were so rustic. is not of my business, but i think you got a macho problem. Please get back to the time, where men were carrying out.
And if your address is President@whitehouse.gov… hahah let me tell you that you president look exactly as a monkey haha.. no wonder from what time of the world history you come from. I thought you would have evolutionated from Monkey to reasonable human. If not copy and paste this link
http://home.wanadoo.nl/the-only-3e/Other_MSMD.html
Dont get too smart here Prez.
#19 | Comment by Melanie — October 17, 2002 @ 3:53 am
Prez you have to understand that not all girls are created equal, which is pretty obvious to anyone ever having followed this site. There are certain qualities about someone that makes you just HAVE to give up something for. And I think this is what Justin is faced with. I’m all for your decision, buddy… It’s not the end. I’m sure we’ll see you off and on, but it would be selfish of us to give you shit for not posting regularly. You’ve created a legacy and something new for all of us to build on. All our sites will have a little ‘Justin’ in it. You take care and do check up on us now and again.
#20 | Comment by Kev — October 17, 2002 @ 3:59 am
I thought your girlfriend liked the site. 🙁
I hope you can come back, but if you’re going to get another dude. I hope you consider Jamlink, Banana, or Eric. If any of them would like to do it. Peace, and Happy Tree Friends to you.
#21 | Comment by Bubba — October 17, 2002 @ 4:06 am
huk ^^ huk
#22 | Comment by Bubba — October 17, 2002 @ 4:08 am
sad to read bout your situation dude. respect your decision and you have my full support. Anything that’s expandable should be laid aside first and start resolving the issues you have with your relationship. Nothing could be more important. I mean comparing a website and a relationship, it’s pretty obvious which is top priority. I’m sure you won’t be avoiding the girls (Thess, Eve, Suzi, Liz etc etc) while u’re solving your issues as well right? as in on line chatting. Maybe then the website shouldnt be given up at all? But if it does prove to be a disturbance for your girlfren then you should do whats best. all the best dude.
#23 | Comment by tiberian — October 17, 2002 @ 4:12 am
I think you OD’d on crazy pills.
#24 | Comment by POOonSHOE — October 17, 2002 @ 4:21 am
One bitch…one thousand different faces.
Actually I agree with him.
#25 | Comment by Sloan — October 17, 2002 @ 4:28 am
okay. dik kok gets my vote for funniest post in ages. rofl.
kris… ahhhh… yes the joys of my "perfect" life. [hint of sarcasm]
And melanie thanks for the link, indeed those are several snapshots of me, however, I don’t know who the idiot wearing the suit is…
#26 | Comment by Prez — October 17, 2002 @ 4:36 am
you’ll be back within a week.
#27 | Comment by psyche — October 17, 2002 @ 5:52 am
Hey Justin, I think your right you should take time out to sort all everything. Don’t worry about fubar it will survive without for a while. Make your girl happy and just do what you got to do. All us fans will be here when you get back. Respect, peace and Love Sliy.
fubar fan 6/5/00 – 10/17/02!
#28 | Comment by Sliy — October 17, 2002 @ 6:10 am
Whoa!! This is all a bit OTT FFS! Come on, how old are you Justin? Live life while your young, do what you want now, chances are this relationship will not be your last and you may look back and regret this decision!
Don’t say I didn’t warn you! Your choice though…
#29 | Comment by Carl — October 17, 2002 @ 6:39 am
very impressive, didnt know you had it in you…. I will miss ya! Dont stay away too long..
#30 | Comment by meg — October 17, 2002 @ 7:09 am
You know, not to sound like Mike Brady at the end of a Brady Bunch episode, but I think a lot of people here -actually just the ones who claim Justin’s girlfriend is being selfish- are being selfish themselves.
Ooh, ahh, so you’ll be going without boobies and random posts about the torture he puts AIM-using Avril-adoring buffoons through. Hey, I’ll miss it too, but then again, this ain’t the only brothel on the block. I mean, I think back to my previous relationships, and I can only wish that I got a sign as clear as this. Of course, I ignored the sign I did get and consequently haven’t had an actual girlfriend in about five years; a statistic which actually qualifies me as a cautionary tale.
After a relationship’s over, that’s when you say, "Damn, what was I thinking to do that for her?" You don’t say that during the relationship; you just make the decision and run with it. And if the relationship doesn’t end, then I guess you made the right decision. Way I figure it, even if you’re wrong about a girl, she’ll only cost you a few months of your life, or half of your accumulated wealth if you marry her.
The point I actually was planning on making is that -Justin- maybe you just ought to have a talk with her about exactly what you ought to do with the place. Revoking the girls’ posting privileges might be on her menu, but they still get top-billing in the links section. Or, hey, I could put a "I <3 Justin, he is teh sexee" sign on MY chest for posting, just in case your girlfriend is looking for equality; of course I think that sign would actually make my counter start rolling backwards if you linked me, not to mention the blinding of hundreds of Fubar readers.
Talk to her. Actual talk. Not over the phone, not via AIM. Take the girl out for... I'd like to say coffee, but I found out from one of my dates how much it burns. Restaurants are expensive and potentially damaging to one's reputation, should the girl become volatile, not to mention sharp silverware within arm's reach. I got stories about any situation. Just find out what it is that she doesn't like, and be honest; this is for posterity.
Of course, what do I know? I just spent the last four hours shredding Pearl Harbor on my website and going through frames upon frames of Affleck for the best possible Popeye-look in a three-hour movie. I'm probably certifiable at this point.
#31 | Comment by Umgawa — October 17, 2002 @ 7:22 am
i know how long this site has been running, though i can’t understand why your girlfriend got with you in the first place i mean, knowing already that you run this site. now she expects u to stop posting in it? ves you a chance to show a different side of you, and people love it. you made the site and u should think more before doing this…
#32 | Comment by angeline — October 17, 2002 @ 7:39 am
Attaboy Justin. Put your girl up front. But don’t neglect the fact that this site exists! Will miss your corny horny jokes and posts about stupid ppl that exist in the world. This place is truly better than jokeoftheday.com Heh.
#33 | Comment by Fershad — October 17, 2002 @ 7:50 am
She might have some insecurity issues, but she also has some valid points. At least this way Justin can separate relationship issues from the website. If things don’t work out for him, then he made the right decision because he won’t blame the website for causing the ex-girlfriend. Then we’ll welcome him back with open arms. If things DO work out, then he also made the right decision because he’ll have found a great girl. Maybe by that point she’ll be secure enough in their relationship that he can start posting again.
Later…
#34 | Comment by rustyk — October 17, 2002 @ 8:07 am
I think that this is my fault, but you’ll be back beleive me. Come back, and you might get a special present from me, and as for the girlfriend, move on. You can have so much more fun when you are single you little flower. I’ll lick the little petals of your asshole until you cream into your little hands.
Love
Jenn
#35 | Comment by Jennsdiaries — October 17, 2002 @ 8:25 am
I guess you’re the boss. I’m with Bubba on that ONE post. Jamlink, Eric and Banana. And your er… female friends.
Later
Hey you just started a trend !
#36 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 8:34 am
Oh yeah you little slut, you’d better still answer my fucking emails or I will get really really pissed off and you won’t get what you want from me.
Love
Jenn
#37 | Comment by Jennsdiaries — October 17, 2002 @ 8:41 am
I now fully understands your gf.
#38 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 8:42 am
Heh. My g/f wondered how Justin’s g/f would be able to stand the stuff that he’s posted, and we got the answer. But ya know, He could still post just as long as it ain’t about other girls, boobs and wanting to hump fictional cartoon characters.
#39 | Comment by r-fire — October 17, 2002 @ 8:59 am
So this is like…the 5th time you quit? :p If you gotta go, then you gotta go, but you’ll be missed…
#40 | Comment by Jacob — October 17, 2002 @ 9:04 am
take care man, sorry to see you go. hope the relationship works out in the long run, would be a shame if this is just a shit test.
#41 | Comment by static — October 17, 2002 @ 9:08 am
It just came to me; let Dick Kok get some of the site to. And teach him to spell.
#42 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 9:10 am
Isnt this one of the signs of the apocolypse? Is the end of the world? Will the anti-christ finally prevail? Will Thess ever pull her thing out of her ass? Will Suzi stay all sweet or turn into a full fledge cam whore? Will Justin ever look and comment on another womans boobs again? Will George Lucas evermake Episode 3? God, it really is the end!!
#43 | Comment by Mike — October 17, 2002 @ 9:34 am
sorry for all the porn… hope it’s not because of that :/
come back soon
#44 | Comment by Psykodelik — October 17, 2002 @ 9:49 am
thanks for the
fun
boobs
passwords
stupid avril fans
and other stuff
peace
#45 | Comment by jc — October 17, 2002 @ 10:03 am
Justin, I hate to say it, but you were way too much of a martyr in your post to satisfy your girlfriend. Honestly, you should have just walked away without a word if you were going to quit. Now, she’s going to feel like you’re hanging your sacrifice over her head. That may not have been your intention, but I suspect that it will be the case. What you should do to compensate is write a follow up post to address the madness, explain that you’ve engaged in grossly inappropriate behavior for someone in a committed relationship and most importantly end with ‘my own self-respect is at stake.’ Actually, I harbor some feelings that you are not quitting at all, but rather writing to rile everyone up. That would be brilliant. What would be especially cool, is if you actually wrote all the websites of all the girls you link on this page and write for them when they post here. Always stirring things up. Its beautiful. I think maybe I’m going to do that. Hey, maybe I’m Justin and its actually happening as I type. Hmm.
#46 | Comment by bofc — October 17, 2002 @ 10:04 am
selamat tinggal..kawan..
#47 | Comment by kic — October 17, 2002 @ 10:31 am
Fuck, hvor er det noget LORT det her !
#48 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 10:51 am
well justin i think you made the right choice. ill miss your posts 🙁 but you gotta do what you gotta do. good luck with the girl!
#49 | Comment by J.C. — October 17, 2002 @ 11:15 am
This site is run by the biggest pussy – I’ve been reading it for a few weeks now and though I’ve had fun I’ve come to realize that all the readers here are fucking homos and closet fags – the girls here have absolutely no lives and are the quintessential "choir" – justin, if you said you were going to eat lead, they would praise you for it, let’s get serious, they love you and you’re not doing the right thing here – now, your site here is hilarious, it’s awesome, and you cant leave – you spend maybe 20 hours a day on this site and somehow a "real life" girl comes along with a pound of jealousy and a bacon strip of insecurity and what do you do? You go fucking lick her ass – who the fuck cares? If she was running a website that was as successful, how many htis yo get a day??? – would you ask HER to stop running it b/c some lame ass dudes were talking to her? And dont fucking downplay your "net life" girls here, they are, as much as you might not think it now, YOUR FRIENDS. You’re dissing maybe 10 of your real friends and a thousand of other readers who appreciate you for some nasty stinking jealous whore who cant comprehend what your shoes feels like so what she do? She whines and complains and makes you change – anyway, that’s all – this post is a little schizophrenic, I know, but i meant 100% of everything I’ve said – anyway, I guess I’ll see you again when you’ve turned into a pliable rubber doll pushover. Until then. Jesus saves.
#50 | Comment by Jesus — October 17, 2002 @ 11:39 am
And hasnt anyone figured out the resverse psychology involved in all this? Maybe Justin is posting his "last" msg here bc he’s reaching out and asking for help in the only way he knows how? All you dumbasses are like, "ok justin, good luck" and some bullshit like that and meanwhile you cant possibly know what he’s thinking right now – say you’re disappointed, say you’re not happy with it, and dont be such a fucking wimp – dont be sensitive, some bitch’s got justin by his balls and they’er turning blue.
#51 | Comment by Jesus — October 17, 2002 @ 11:41 am
Yes, I do have some truly wonderful ideas for the new dontlinkthis.net. There shall be no more pornography or profanity. I think we shall have a weekly wine tasting followed by dissertations by all viewers on their philosophical interpretation of the finer points in life. Tuesdays I shall write about Astro-physics and aeronautics. Wednesdays the girls and I will discuss how pornography will cause the downfall of society. Thursdays will be Gay Rights Activists day. Friday shall be English lessons for our less educated viewers.
Aw….fuck it. How bout we just change the layout as Avril is kick ass but getting a little played out, dig up some more bangbus passwords, watch Happy Tree Friends, and talk about how Bum Wars is the best thing to hit the internet in months.
#52 | Comment by Jamlink — October 17, 2002 @ 11:42 am
Eh, Bubba? I would take over this site only if I could be guaranteed to get at least half as many stalkers as Justin does.
#53 | Comment by Banana — October 17, 2002 @ 11:53 am
I’m not even going to ask why you didn’t tell me this before I read about it.
I completely understand this. If she is worth it (which I know she is because I’ve talked to her and she is LOVELY.) then it is a good thing to do. If I had a boyfriend who disliked my site and my netlife, I’d reformat my computer in a second and forget I had a site, I don’t though. But I still understand. <3 teh zoe.
I shall miss your posts though Justin. Now I can't IM you and pester you while you are in the midst of writing a thouroughly lame yet enjoyable post. Oh well, IM me. I have a proposition for you! (it concerns teh livejournal)
#54 | Comment by suzi — October 17, 2002 @ 12:02 pm
Fuck you Jesus.
#55 | Comment by Anti-christ — October 17, 2002 @ 12:07 pm
Well I’ve been visiting this site since it was fubar.nathanism.com. I’ve seen you quit 3 times if memory serves me, although once it was a ruse. In any event, the point I am trying to make is that you will be back soon enough. It’ll probably take you about a month, from how it is. In any event, good luck to you. I will miss reading about DVD’s during your absence.
#56 | Comment by dugas of eenodol — October 17, 2002 @ 12:10 pm
"jesus" and the rest of you who insist on judging someone you don’t know, deserve to be beaten with sticks and fed to lions. How dare you put someone down who you’ve never even spoken to?
It’s scary when stupid people try playing shrink.
#57 | Comment by Jad to get this out of my system — October 17, 2002 @ 12:30 pm
no more (i’m not stealing it)boobehs. =(
#58 | Comment by jerjrjejjejerjjerjrjer — October 17, 2002 @ 12:36 pm
Haha, Jamlink, I think you should run FUBAR 😉 lmao..you’re funny man. And Prez, Justin would never give you this site after the way you slammed Eve. That was pretty mean, even if it was in our (me and meg’s) defense. There’s going way too far, you know.
#59 | Comment by Liz — October 17, 2002 @ 12:46 pm
And as this woman who says she loves you, rides her powertrip…chipping away at the things you love in your life to mold you into her pet. You must ask yourself, is this what it means to love? To control what your partner does and thinks. What’s the next thing she’ll ax in your life now that she doesn’t have this site to quip about? Hey, maybe she doesn’t want you to have a certain friend on campus, maybe she doesn’t want you hanging out at a certain bar, maybe she wants you to start wearing turtlenecks and sweaters. Don’t be led around by the nose man, there’s plenty of other women out there. Good luck.
#60 | Comment by Johny Bluehead — October 17, 2002 @ 12:50 pm
all this broohaha for a little bit of nooky – i think it’s well and good you quit this site, stop being such a whiny little internet bitch, and get some real-life experience of what it means to have a relationship with a real person – and then come back when this whole thing’s over with your stupid wench of a girlfriend (soon to be ex by the way) and write some funny shit like you always do on this site. dont mess with jesus. you’ll go to hell.
#61 | Comment by Jesus — October 17, 2002 @ 1:40 pm
I’m sure your girlfriend is a lovely person but hey, she sounds no different to any woman I’ve ever dated. They’re all insecure about their guys "closeness" to other women whether it be female childhood friends you’ve grown up with since yay high to internet buddies or your attractive cousins it makes no difference. Insecurity kills relationships eventually so I know you’ll be back even if you do shut down for now. Are you supposed to stop chatting to all the people you’ve met through this site too??? My advice – don’t shut down the site, don’t allow your girlfriends insecurities take away a hobby you enjoy doing and are appreciated for doing. Alternatively, maybe she would like to have a section on the site, none of your readers would mind a bit I’m sure – get her involved a little with it or set her up her own web-journal site then she can see how it’s just a bit of harmless fun and a good way to meet people with similar interests.
#62 | Comment by dude — October 17, 2002 @ 1:56 pm
Its the end of an era…I would have done the same thing. We will miss you Justin
#63 | Comment by Celius_Quin — October 17, 2002 @ 1:56 pm
shit happens man. its okay i still like cheese.. damn goodah.
#64 | Comment by jizzy- — October 17, 2002 @ 2:06 pm
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#65 | Comment by thess — October 17, 2002 @ 2:14 pm
Once again, Fuck you Jesus. That’s why I’m not christian.
#66 | Comment by Anti-christ — October 17, 2002 @ 2:16 pm
I love blasphemous Jews
#67 | Comment by Jesus — October 17, 2002 @ 2:34 pm
It’s actually Jebus not Jesus, they mispelled my name after the 2nd edition and Jesus has been getting all the credit ever since.
#68 | Comment by Jebus — October 17, 2002 @ 2:47 pm
This has alost happened before.
#69 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 2:52 pm
I vote for Jesus.
#70 | Comment by POOonSHOE — October 17, 2002 @ 3:36 pm
kingolf, that was a good read!
justin = poser? =O
i have a feeling you’ll be back =D
#71 | Comment by mike — October 17, 2002 @ 3:42 pm
*Also
#72 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 4:04 pm
No wait, i think it was *almost.
#73 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 4:04 pm
You shuld let Jenn take it ower, she sounds like a real psyco… …Psycos rule
Will you date me Jenn, I love psycos?
#74 | Comment by Nissol — October 17, 2002 @ 4:40 pm
oops… I put the ? dead wrong, sorry all you english proffs out there
#75 | Comment by nissol — October 17, 2002 @ 4:41 pm
Isn’t it funny\sad, that if new girl starts here, she’ll get flamed to death. It’s true. Look at what happened when Stacy started. http://dontlinkthis.net/archives/600
#76 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 4:46 pm
Oh well this really sucks. but you’re right. girl before the site. oh well. we might see you back on the comments or something. laterz!
#77 | Comment by Ikke — October 17, 2002 @ 4:54 pm
you guys and the archives.. i swear
it’s a-me mario!
#78 | Comment by Chris — October 17, 2002 @ 5:02 pm
And I thought I had long posts.
#79 | Comment by Jamlink — October 17, 2002 @ 5:08 pm
Justin said that. In an IM convo. Somebody asked who he was (Or more probably, if he was Avril Lavigne.).
#80 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 5:09 pm
Way to puss out, Justin! Way to support your girlfriend’s irrational fears and feed her neuroses. She’s got you now, there’s no turning back! Say goodbye to ever having your way again! : D
#81 | Comment by heatwaves — October 17, 2002 @ 5:12 pm
Just read most of the posts finally and PREZ IS 100% RIGHT.
My girlfriend of five years use to try and get me to change my life to appease insecurities she had at the time. If you give in, it will only FUEL those insecurities. Once she realized that I failed to submit to every passing jealous demand and that I still loved her, she realized that ridiculous insecurities were ALL that it was. Now she’s the most confident woman around and respects my individuality. And now, much like PREZ’s gal, she recognizes that a guy can still gawk at other chicks, or even flirt for that matter, and still be the most important thing in their man’s life.
Every guy gawks. Every guy flirts. But the real men can be honest with their women about it.
#82 | Comment by heatwaves — October 17, 2002 @ 5:27 pm
are we stuck with the fucking avril layout for good now? and who will update the tit pictures?
*sniff*
#83 | Comment by gomer — October 17, 2002 @ 5:48 pm
FUBAR ROCKS, let your girlfriend start her own website with some boy crazy theme, I’m sure that will help.
#84 | Comment by P. Orno Rocks — October 17, 2002 @ 6:01 pm
Nissol, you stay away from my Jenn! I will fight you to the death. Although I do think it’s a great idea for her to take over the site. Someone should let her sink her claws into me…er, I mean it.
#85 | Comment by Banana — October 17, 2002 @ 6:23 pm
Justin is above judgment. You will be missed, man, and I respect your decision. In case she ever loosens up about it, think about running a site without all the side stuff.
#86 | Comment by Locke — October 17, 2002 @ 7:22 pm
Why is it always only the first 5 commments that has anything to do with the post ? *
Here’s a comma: , Mark it, press "control" and "c" at the same time and insert it where you want.
Hey actually… that sounded really perv.
#87 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 7:23 pm
Well you have to do what you feel is right. Hopefully it will work itself out and you will be back, But if that does not happen thanks for the hours of entertainment and laughs. Maybe you should ask her if she would like to be a part of fubar and help you run it instead of her feeling like an outsider. In any case good luck and wish you the best.
-kris
#88 | Comment by kris — October 17, 2002 @ 7:37 pm
Locke, I am not usually one to comment on someone’s screen name, but where did you come up with that. Do you have an antithesis out there going under Demosthenes?
Well, if this was all a ruse to get some posts, Justin has certainly done it. This is the most number of comments I have ever seen on here. Might actually break the 100 or even 200 mark.
I gotta feed to gomer though, Avril is getting old. If Justin is going to be gone for a while, at least he can change the layout or give someone else rights to do so. Or maybe if he did a layout with Zoe she would change her mind about the site, she is pretty hot if I remember right.
Thursdays being Gay Rights Activist day, I will cut this short since I am not gay.
#89 | Comment by Jamlink — October 17, 2002 @ 7:50 pm
I agree with Prez.
Never change the Avril layout! NEVER!
#90 | Comment by PenguinMessiah — October 17, 2002 @ 8:13 pm
I can’t wait until Tuesday. Astro-physics and aeronautics baby!!! w00t! w00t!
JUSTIN IS GOD!!!
#91 | Comment by Bubba — October 17, 2002 @ 9:22 pm
I understand your decision, do what you have to do for the love. Nothing but respect from me.
#92 | Comment by Dylan — October 17, 2002 @ 9:30 pm
I don’t remember the first time I came to this site but I do remember how hooked I became. This site has had the power to captivate the internet audience with humor, drama, and general profanity. It is too bad that this is the end because it will be missed by the stalkers, crazies, creeps, but more importantly the people like me who read it all the time and were silent observers. Us normal, non-freaks will miss you too. Thanks for the fun.
#93 | Comment by jevff — October 17, 2002 @ 9:45 pm
Thre’s a non-freak here !?!?!?! *GASP*
#94 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 9:52 pm
People perceive things in many different ways. For one thing, I do not think that Justin is a “pussy” who has his balls hanging with his girlfriend. In fact, it takes more than just two balls to be able to recognize what is really important in your life. For those of you who think Justin is a “pussy”, I sincerely wish you the best of luck in maintaining your relationship if you don’t already have one braking down.
Anyhow, although I have not been reading this site for long, it has been a unique and interesting experience for me. I find myself laughing to posts, and keep coming back whenever I have time on hand. You are a very thoughtful person, Justin. All in all, I am looking forward for you to come back and posts again.
#95 | Comment by Sam — October 17, 2002 @ 9:58 pm
Dude I say go for what YOU believe in. I will miss ya post but good luck in ya relationship. See ya bro!!!
#96 | Comment by Punisher — October 17, 2002 @ 10:06 pm
I’ve been coming here for about a year now and know you came back last time you claimed it was probably over. If your girlfriend can’t have your online friends on your website it wouldn’t make a difference. I’m sure not the only one who comes here to read about whats going on in your life and not some lame post my meg or liz about their new fansign pics in their blogs. change the layout, talk about dvds instead of boobies and keep posting
#97 | Comment by steve — October 17, 2002 @ 10:41 pm
What the hell is "Teh" It’s been bothering me forever!!
#98 | Comment by chicken nuggets — October 17, 2002 @ 10:54 pm
"Teh" means "the" simple.
#99 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 11:16 pm
I got the post # 100 ! Yubii !!!
#100 | Comment by Kingolf — October 17, 2002 @ 11:17 pm
wow this is a little nutz. why does this matter so much? i mean this is a great site and all, but there will be others. who knows, maybe justin, you will just be another poster on another site someday. i think you are making the right decision as if you really care what i think. hey maybe it’ll spread around that avril has called it quits. wouldn’t that be swell. did i just type ‘swell’? gee…maybe i am gay….nah, i don’t think so. at any rate, justin i hope everything goes well with your girl. good luck and may the b00bies be with you.
#101 | Comment by b00bies — October 17, 2002 @ 11:32 pm
Man, if there’s one thing I could change about this site… is the homophobia so often exhibited in the comments. -sigh-
#102 | Comment by Stink — October 17, 2002 @ 11:45 pm
And that wasn’t in response to b00bies – see way above for the stupidity I’m referring to.
#103 | Comment by Stink — October 17, 2002 @ 11:47 pm
I can’t believe we’re going to miss out on such a wonderful site for some STUPID bitch that types ‘u’ instead of ‘you’… Eh, guess she puts out and we don’t. LoL I got man boobs, if that helps.
#104 | Comment by Burn — October 17, 2002 @ 11:52 pm
My grandpa is molesting me.Help me.Can someone pls help me.I’m sorry if i posted something which offended someone.I’m really sorry.My dick is like a turtle head.Its retractable and my Grandpa is jealous cuz his isnt.Can someone pls help me.Click here to help me.Pls click or else i will be so violated and i’ll probably kill or castrate myself.Thank you.
#105 | Comment by Bum — October 18, 2002 @ 1:05 am
Well although I only just recently started posting, I have been a avid reader for about 2 years… the best of luck to you, hopefully you can come back, otherwise it was a fun trip while it lasted.
#106 | Comment by Zack — October 18, 2002 @ 1:09 am
Umm..i’m sorry..i forgot to tell you that if you click on the link in my previous post,you will be directed to my Grandpa’s Site.He’s forcing me to help him increase traffic and unless i help him get at least 10 person into his awesome site,he will molest me again.I hate being molested.One day,i’m going to retaliate and molest him.I’m going to knot his pubes to his beard and set it on fire.I’m evil.My dad is in prison for drug abuse and pimping.My mum is in prison for whoring herself.I think she isnt my mum cuz Grandpa keeps telling me that my real mum is my grandma.I dunnoe.I’m really confused.Click here to help me sort things out.Thanks. 🙂 Its great to have frens like all of you.
#107 | Comment by Bum — October 18, 2002 @ 1:13 am
I apologize to all of the gays, lesbians, astro-physicists, aeronautical engineers, uneducated English majors ("it is the homophobia" would have been proper), and wine tasters that I may have offended earlier.
However, as I was posting under the assumption that I would be taking over this site, the disclaimer should apply towards my statements.
I will include it below for any stinky people who may have not read it previously. Some people just can’t take a joke.
"Disclaimer: take everything here with a grain of salt, it’s just me ranting…
The opinions expressed on this site are solely the author’s, and not representative of any individual, company, corporation, government, head of state, deity, pantheon, or anyone or anything else I may have missed. Read at your own risk. Don’t try this at home. Careful, the beverage you’re about to enjoy is extremely hot. Contents packed by weight, not volume. Objects in mirror may be closer than they appear. Don’t feed the animals.
If anything offends you, quit reading and don’t come back. Oh and I stole this disclaimer from SuperMegaJayMan because i couldn’t be bothered writing my own."
#108 | Comment by Jamlink — October 18, 2002 @ 1:36 am
Wow, I cant say I saw this coming. I’ve been coming to this site almost everyday for over a year now, and have wrote a comment from time to time. I even got a nickname from some guy I fought with in the comment section "jimmy the canuck". This site was lots of fun, I always looked forward to the posts. I felt like I knew Justin yet I haven’t ever even talked to the guy(I’m not crazy). One time ago Justin said the game "Animal Crossing" was an amazing game, the next day I went and bought it just because he said it was good. I see where Justin is coming from and I’d probably do the same. Justin I just want to thank you for everything and I hope to read your posts some day again. Thank you
#109 | Comment by James — October 18, 2002 @ 2:16 am
it all boils down to this one simple fact: real life p00n is a hell of a lot more fun than HTML.
I respect your decision, but you will be missed. Good luck with your special lady friend.
#110 | Comment by krome — October 18, 2002 @ 3:01 am
Justin, you are the only person that makes this site funny. Your guests that post are not as entertaining as you. I’m sorry to see you go, but I would do the same thing if I were in your situation. I hope you at least post in the comments if nothing else. If you don’t post at least once in a while, then you should close the site. The others can’t keep it up. By the way, I have no ill will towards your girlfriend. I understand her position.
Good luck. I hope it all works out.
#111 | Comment by Jarge — October 18, 2002 @ 3:04 am
This is all Meg’s whore pictures fault.
DAMMIT
#112 | Comment by Tommy — October 18, 2002 @ 3:14 am
Justin, you dirty little boy-slut, I can just imagine you in your shitty little room masterbating over all these comments, believing that these people really care, and picturing the day that you feel my fingers inside you.
Love
Jenn
#113 | Comment by Jennsdiaries — October 18, 2002 @ 5:32 am
yeah… its a pity but hey. I can see where youre coming from.
U sure ur not just using this "Im quitting the site" thing to get the girlfriend to see what it means to you and then she will say "Justin… carry on with the site, I can see you love me and I understand its just a site" bla bla.
Anyways
Take it easy
ps. I want to see the Jennsdiaries chick naked
#114 | Comment by Rory — October 18, 2002 @ 7:59 am
I am so funny when i was born,the doctor laughed and spat on my face.I’m sorry,that was supposed to be one of the "I am so Ugly" joke thingy but i PURPOSELY changed it.Hardy Har Har.When i get hold of this site,i am going to make it funny,i am going to post lots of kokes.I mean "J"okes.Typo there but i actually did it purposely because i think that its really bunny..i mean "f"unny….Hardy Har Har…i just did it again.I apologize to myself for being a lameass-son-of-courtesan-whore joker who torments everyone with my extremely dry-stupit-corny-dumb-mega-not-funny jokes,i pubicly apologize to everyone for posting crap,i cannnot help it but i am crap.I’m so crappy,when i was born…they wrapped me up in one big diaper and tried to dispose me.I was dropped on my head a couple of times and the doctor says that the left side of my brain(which deals with humor and whatever crap) was damaged pretty badly AND that is why my jokes are not funny.I’m a moron and i like to sniff my butt.Would jenn be kind enough to poke mine?I promise to post another really funny and "entertainin as fuck" post if jenn pokes my butt :)..and i will take over this site and take good care of it if meg,liz,suzi and all the girls here put their itty bitty middle fingers into my butthole althogther at the same time.I’m sorry if i offended anyone by posting this especially all the dumb people who thinks that i am funny.This is not an impersonator and this is definitely NOT the guy who posts under the handle "dick kok" and who always links to this site.I am really james.I will tell you one last joke to prove that i am james.Okay..here goes..My mum is so old,she knew buger king when he was still a prince.Hardy har har..hyuk hyuk hyuk
#115 | Comment by james — October 18, 2002 @ 8:31 am
James just gave me a reason why a mother would abort her child…
#116 | Comment by POOonSHOE — October 18, 2002 @ 9:08 am
It’s about fucking time.
#117 | Comment by magellan — October 18, 2002 @ 9:28 am
AHH!!! YOU CAN’T GO!! I just found your site 3 days ago. Damn. If I were your gf, I’d eel the same way too cos I have major self-esteem issues. And for that, I totally respect you for understanding how she feels and agreeing to let go the site. You’re one sweet guy. Anyhow, pls come back when you’re done with her, kay? LOL…kiddin..Don’t come back if that’s what it takes. =)
#118 | Comment by Lynn — October 18, 2002 @ 11:01 am
Can someone please post something new to this stupid site before I curse you all to damnation? And Lynn, go away. We hate new people here. You have to earn your membership on this site by 1.) posting a naked pic of yourself (or provide a link) 2.) reading all the archived materials on this site , memorizing them like a bible (my favorite book of all time)and then rehashing them at appropriate times (see jamlink and kilingoff’s comments) or 3.) finding Justin in real life, seducing him like a snake, showing him your (teh) boobs, making him feel like a pussy for being his funny self on his website, then threaten to not show him your (teh) boobs if he doesnt quit his site. One of the three. Remember, Jesus Saves.
#119 | Comment by Jesus — October 18, 2002 @ 1:40 pm
It really is too bad that you can’t keep running this awesome website. Where am I going to get my weekly porn link fix? Seriously though, you gotta do what you gotta do Justin. I’m hoping that the lovely ladies will keep this site up and running. Because when you break it down, it’s all about the respect for the ladies. Your posts were funny and excellent Justin, but in the end I only visit to see what the girls have written. I don’t mean any disrespect to you Justin, but as a guy my defense of other guys can only go so far. The site won’t be the same without ya, so come back soon. Maybe get a girlfriend that respects what you do and trusts you next time. But who am I, a long time reader, first time poster, to be talking about all of this? Oh well.
#120 | Comment by cf — October 18, 2002 @ 1:55 pm
long posts suck.. they’re hard to read
and jamlink where did you get the idea that this was going to be your site? i’m too lazy to read all 120 comments. copy and paste please.
#121 | Comment by Chris — October 18, 2002 @ 2:43 pm
YO YO YO CHECK IT! IM REPRESENTING MA HOME GURL FROM THE EAST SYYYYDEEE! Heh i dont really talk like this. YO justin good thing your listning to my zoe, cause if not id have to unleash some serious fire and brimstone… Oh yea, and next time yall need lifts from l’areoport just gimmie a call. Much love
your resident god of mischief
ian
#122 | Comment by Loki — October 18, 2002 @ 2:45 pm
-Chris
I put the idea in his head. See comment 21 for more information.
"You know what Ol’ Jack always says." "Who?" "Jack Burton…….ME!" "Ol’ Jack always says…what the hell."
#123 | Comment by Bubba — October 18, 2002 @ 3:40 pm
Aww, no more Justin. It’s the end of an era. Well man, we’re all fools for love. Take care 🙂
#124 | Comment by Annie — October 18, 2002 @ 3:59 pm
Its been great while it lasted. Even though i don’t like your decision I’ll respect your wishes. Hopefully you will be back soon. ^_^ huk huk…..
#125 | Comment by Jinx626 — October 18, 2002 @ 4:37 pm
Justin,
I suspect that there are 3 issues embedded in your current dilemma: your decision whether or not to be more focused socially offline or online, the trust required for a healthy relationship and the authenticity of your online identity.
So while your decision is entirely understandable (i.e., to engage with the real woman in the real world), it shouldn’t be confused her trust issue and whether or not that is driven by the disconnect between your online and offline personas.
Regardless of the longevity of your relationship, you may decide based on this experience that you want to be the same person offline and online. Then your future partners will not be so likely to have trust issues – unless it’s purely their own issue at heart, in which case they won’t want you relating to any other woman in either sphere.
Best,
RedEye
#126 | Comment by RedEye — October 18, 2002 @ 5:11 pm
Dude:
Don’t be so damn gay. Eight ex girlfriends and you are worried about this chick? Whatever.
bitterman
#127 | Comment by bitterman — October 18, 2002 @ 5:22 pm
I was going to say something about Justin’s post, but some of these people’s stupidity made me forget what I was going to say….
#128 | Comment by Dark_Superman — October 18, 2002 @ 5:25 pm
hope u can get back to this soon, justin… although many respect your decision, and some don’t, all of us want u to come back… so remember man, soon as u get that g/f thing all cleared up (i gotta do that for myself, too) come back and get some new material… avril layout’s gettin old… =D
#129 | Comment by dex — October 18, 2002 @ 5:53 pm
Justin, Justin, Justin. That bitch has your balls in her hand! And not in the good way! Not to sound cliche, but this is bad, not in a good way, but badinabadway!
#130 | Comment by PenguinMessiah — October 18, 2002 @ 6:39 pm
dude you’re whipped, she’s going to have you doing every little thing she says from here on out. Say goodbye to you thought process.
#131 | Comment by real man — October 18, 2002 @ 11:46 pm
OK all 131 comments is way to many to read, but i dont want to sound greedy or needy but can we hav some more bangbus/milfhunter passwords??? also…i work at a girls clothing store in Orange County CA….with tons of hot girls shopping there all the time and working there….My girlfriend loves me and trusts me and is not jealous. Period…. i’ll miss you Justin…1½ year reader.
#132 | Comment by EverSnow — October 19, 2002 @ 1:13 am
ok.back.i remembered what i was going to say.I cant help it,this always happens.Apparently,my brain is as fucked up as i am and my memory-span is shorter than that of a goldfish’s.okay,justin…be cool man…dont quit this site,i’ve been reading your site for like almost everyday man and i’ve been reading the archives for like everyday.its like cool.super cool.if your’re going,then i’m like going too man because your site wouldnt be as interesting and yea..eversnow is right…post up somemore bangbus passwords or whatever as a last post so that we can like jerk to forget that your’re actually going
#133 | Comment by dark_superman — October 19, 2002 @ 1:50 am
man.i was like typing a really touching and emotional last post and was giving you some advice when i suddenly hit the backspace button and deleted it man.damn man.this sucks.i was going to retype everything but i forgot what i typed.Its all because of everyone’s stupdity…not mine..i am very smart..i’m not mentally disabled,its just that i’m under appreciated and society have not yet learn how to accept me
#134 | Comment by dark_superman — October 19, 2002 @ 1:57 am
They aren’t for bangbus, but it’s a buggerload of them just posted on a forum I read: http://biggieuk.tripod.com/23-09-02-Level2-MoretoCome.txt
#135 | Comment by thess — October 19, 2002 @ 3:21 am
Whatever i have ever said about you Thess, I truly regret it and take it back. <3 Thess !
#136 | Comment by Kingolf — October 19, 2002 @ 10:43 am
any girl who would make/influence something that you like doing is an ass.. Besides being selfish its utterly stupid to get jelous over the internet. Hello can you look down the road a little bit if this girl gets stupid over something like this what else is she gonna freak about
#137 | Comment by derek — October 21, 2002 @ 6:39 pm
dammit justin, i leave you alone for 2 seconds and you leave your site? 🙂 anyways, i completely understand your situation – something on a smaller scale happened to me. Sigh.
It’s just kinda hard to have two different ‘lives’ – I know how your girlf feels aye, so..
keep in touch. it sure was nice while it lasted.
but dammit, dont stop posting, and send me an email or two sometime.
#138 | Comment by fuzzy — October 25, 2002 @ 3:48 am
Guess who’s back…
#139 | Comment by kingolf — November 13, 2002 @ 3:44 am